Busy Bee

I have been SO busy,i have not even written ONE entry.New Years was AMAZING,sat at home with My babies and Jon...cleaned the house.New Years Day the whole family went to Mi Casitas and then a surprise Party For our Aunt Gigi.



We also celebrated Jordan's 5th Birthday and i don't think he was too thrilled...who can blame the lil guy,neither am I when i turn another year.Kids had loads of fun hanging out and driving Jordan's Ford Truck :).




The same night i was SO excited girls night with Aunt Lori and My cousin Taylor,to Club Barcelona(VERY nice BTW) we were there too meet VINNY! from Jersey Shore...I felt like a lil girl going to meet Justin Beiber...LOL! But we had loads of fun.I have not worn pumps since 2005 so my feet KILLED ME,but it was sooo worth it!



I also have been going my Zumba work out because my Doctor gave me the OK to work out and diet,i have had a VERY hard recovery due to my c-section,i couldn't really exercise cause i would feel a burning sensation...I was a bad patient and vacuumed right after Jon went back too work...was not supposed too,but if you have OCD like me,you would have not waited either.In other words i did too much and popped 2 stitches.OUCH!I am glad i am better.Zumba is AWESOME and i recommend it!so much fun!





Alex has been doing sooo good in school,that i hated her missing one day last week and two days this week,she has been sick and so has my lil buddy Joshua <3...Took them to see the Doctor,thought they had pneumonia or bronchitis,so we had a trip to Carolina Imaging to get x rays.I got a call this Morning and they said both of the kids' lungs were clear....YEA! but they were getting a prescription for antibiotics,which has too be taken for 5 days...fingers crossed this crap goes AWAY! cause Me and the Honey aren't doing to well.I have not stopped with my work outs either this is Day 15 and i feel GREAT!(i mean still sick,but i feel good!)




Alex received her report card this past Friday and she made all 3 and satisfactory which means AWESOME! I am one proud mommie!But i am off too do some laundry and watch some shows <3

Life can be Hard...but it's what YOU make it...

I am 28yrs old...and i have gone through a lot, from family drama through heartbreaks, and both combined sometimes. I have too say that I am at a happy place right now....I have a loving caring Husband and 2 wonderful Angels in my life, we have been blessed! But i look at the years as they go by (fast by the way) and i see my kids growing fast,they get smarter too.I see how Family can get closer or distant and how Jon and I have had our share of ups and downs, life is a roller coaster...but we have stuck though it all.

I have learned that everyone in your life weather they are there now or absent, they teach you something bad or good,but the choices we make in life should never be considered a mistake...they are all Lessons.We learn to be a better person from every single choice or experience.There is always that person that would LOVE too see you down in the dumps and keep kicking you...but remember you are your own person and you decide if you want too keep getting kicked while your down,or get up and ignore that Bully.I know people personally that still try too keep "bullying" and they live off it...I know that sounds dumb too some of you but i know a couple of you can relate.I try too keep away from the negativity...My personality is mild tempered,i am way too nice to everyone,and i do take many things too serious and to heart,and those people that know this just like too keep jabbing.

You know like in school you have the nice,want to be friends with everyone type of people and the mean girls. It's funny how life is JUST like that...yes we still live in that era,we don't EVER leave that "drama".Why can't everyone just get along and if you can't why don't you (talking to the Bullys) leave people alone,why do you choose to be miserable? unhappy? and unkind? Take a look in the mirror...talk to yourself like you talk to others,see if you like putting yourself down...is it worth it?

Being judgmental is the worse thing you can do...how people are dressed,what brands they wear,because they aren't thin enough,what house they live in,how much money they earn. SERIOUSLY?!?!? how shallow and ugly can you be? there a saying that says..."the uglier you are,the uglier your heart is and it comes out on your face" and i know a lot of those people PERSONALLY...I feel bad for them and all i can say is God Bless your Heart.There is a song by Miranda Lambert "Only Prettier" read it one day...you bully's might learn something or "Mean" by Taylor Swift, I can relate to that song a lot.

So i guess this "ranting" as some of you may call it,is about being a mean,hateful and UN thankful person,i think a lot people need too look in their hearts and realize what they are truly doing,because it will catch up to you.May God Bless all your hearts,mean or not.Why you gotta be so mean?

Love Trust and a lil bit of Pixie dust <3

Alley